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"The self-help book your inner jerk doesn’t want you to read."
How to Be Human and Not an Asshole is the therapy book for people who don’t do therapy books. Whether you're tired of blowing up your relationships, constantly feel misunderstood, or just want to stop spiraling every time someone cuts you off in traffic—this book is your no-BS roadmap to emotional maturity.
With sharp wit, brutal honesty, and just enough compassion to keep you from hating yourself, this guide helps you unpack your triggers, set boundaries without being a jerk, and finally understand why people act the way they do (including you).
It’s not about being perfect. It’s about being human—accountable, self-aware, and just a little less awful.
If you’ve ever thought, “Why am I like this?” or “Why are THEY like this?”—this book is for you.
A literary hot potato that everyone wants a piece of!
Forget everything you thought you knew about self-help books. This wasn't some dusty tome filled with platitudes and diagrams that look like they were drawn by a disgruntled accountant. No, this book was actually funny. Like, 'snort-coffee-out-your-nose-and-then-try-to-blame-the-cat' funny. It managed to be genuinely helpful without making me feel like I was being lectured by a particularly earnest life coach.
Kind, thorough, insightful
This is a kind, thorough, insightful, and extremely helpful book. I learned from it and enjoyed reading it.
Not your average self-help book (thank goodness)
If you are looking for a squishy "i'm, you're ok" type of self help book, this is not it. The author plays and dances with you all the while providing hard hitting thunderbolts of thoughtful awareness. The overall tone is, I feel for you, life is hard, but it's not THAT hard. It's actually quite practical.